Introducing dog and baby
Shelter workers report that many people who surrender their pets to animal shelters cite a new baby as the reason why they must give up their pet. Yet many other families have successfully brought a new baby into their home and still been able to keep and enjoy their animal friends. What is the secret to their success?
Experts suggest that preparing for the baby’s arrival well in advance and taking a few simple precautions can avoid friction and jealousy between your human baby and your furry one. Remember, your four-footed children are accustomed to your undivided attention and pampering. Some jealousy will naturally surface when your new infant suddenly consumes all of your time! Plan to set aside a few minutes each day for special quality time with your pet. Some extra attention and a few treats can go a long way toward avoiding behaviour problems and jealousy.
Dogs & Cats are largely creatures of habit. Though your own routine will be completely disrupted by the new baby, try to keep your pet’s routine as normal as possible. If you anticipate changes in that routine, such as restricting their access to the baby’s room or feeding in a new location, begin implementing the changes as soon as possible before the infant comes home. Animals, like humans, find comfort in routine, so having an established pattern on which to fall back will help combat the insecurity your pet will naturally feel during the first few weeks after baby’s arrival. Along the same lines, allow your pet to get used to some of the new baby smells before you bring your infant home.
Apply baby lotion or powder to your hands, for example, and allow your pet to sniff baby’s clothes and blankets. If possible, allow him to investigate an article of clothing or blanket worn by the new baby prior to the infant’s arrival from the hospital. Animals rely heavily on their sense of smell, so familiarity with the baby’s smell will help your cat recognise him as part of the family when he comes home.
When you finally arrive home with your new baby, greet your pet happily and tell him how much you missed him; though you have been busy with other things, you can be sure that he’s been missing you! Gently introduce him to the baby so he can get a good look at the new family member. From that point forward, include him in as many baby activities as possible. Even saying his name while you’re changing nappies or feeding your infant will make your cat feel like an important part of this new life. Most behaviour problems pets exhibit after a new baby’s arrival stem from jealousy and neglect.
By paying special attention to your pet, preparing him in advance and including him as much as possible after baby comes home, you can avoid such problems and ensure a harmonious household.